Betrothal (过大礼)

Betrothal, "Guo Da Li" is the formality process performed by the groom family in showing the sincerity to the bride's family in binding both families. This process will take place within few weeks before the wedding actual date. Groom will present the "Pin Jin" (聘金) together with the pre-agreed gifts to the bride's family. 


大多数是在婚礼的几个星期前. 由准新郎的近亲在择定的吉时良辰把礼金和礼品送往准新娘的家. 当收到全部的礼金及礼品后, 膜拜神明. 在传统惯例下, 准新人是严禁食用她所收到的任何礼品. 新娘不能迎接新郎, 过完大礼才可以派送喜帖.


古时,过大礼是婚俗流程的重要一环,礼仪隆重,隐含着男女双方的婚约关系正式认定,藉由着日子公告天下,结婚契约生效。当天,命理师已按准新人的时辰八字为他们挑吉日吉时,男家与送嫁娘(现在是男家长辈即可)擭准妥礼金和礼物, 如叶子,礼饼,茶叶,鸡等等,所有过礼的物品数量必是偶数,取其喻意为成双成对,然后送到女方家,正式下聘。过了这天,他们在名义上已有合法夫妻的身份, 某程度上互相自我约束,遵守婚约戒律。


现今的礼俗,过大礼依然是重要的结婚仪式,过文定,聘书等已省略。 


The simple & basic items required for Betrothal are:

  1. Dragon Phoenix Candle
  2. Betrothal Money 
  3. Raise Up Fee
  4. Education
  5. Give Birth
  6. A piece of Red Cloth
  7. Replace Roast Pork (Cantonese/Hakka)
  8. Replace Pork Leg (Hokkien/TeoChew)
  9.  Face Opening Thread


最简单而普通的过大礼用品有:

  1. 龙凤烛
  2. 聘金
  3. 奶母银
  4. 学堂银
  5. 肚痛肉
  6. 开剪钱
  7. 金猪 (客家、广东)
  8. 猪脚酒 (福建、潮州)
  9. 开面钱


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Dragon Phoenix Candle L Size(龙凤烛大型)

Dragon Phoenix Candle L Size(龙凤烛大型)

Large Size Dragon Phoenix Candle for Praying Ceremony during a day before actual wedding day. Length..

RM11.90

Dragon Phoenix Candle M size (龙凤烛中型)

Dragon Phoenix Candle M size (龙凤烛中型)

A pair of candle for praying ceremony use. This ceremony is done a day before the actual wedding day..

RM9.90

Hokkien Teochew Dragon Phoenix Candle

Hokkien Teochew Dragon Phoenix Candle

For praying Sky God the night before actual day. Only Hokkien & Teochew. Length: approximately 4..

RM11.90

Dragon Phoenix Joss Stick (龙凤香)

Dragon Phoenix Joss Stick (龙凤香)

3 pcs of joss stick design with Dragon and Phoenix. Length: 42.3cm 龙凤香,拜天公必备用品。 长度:42.3cm..

RM13.90

Raise Up Fee 奶母银

Raise Up Fee 奶母银

奶母银红包,男方过大礼用品。寓意:感谢养育之恩。 尺寸: 8.9公分 (宽)x 16.2公分 (高) Raise Up Fee, Groom will give to Bride Famil..

RM1.60

Give Birth  肚痛肉

Give Birth 肚痛肉

肚痛肉红包,男方过大礼用品。寓意:感谢岳母生育之恩。 尺寸: 8.9公分 (宽)x 16.2公分 (高) Give Birth Ang Pow, Return Betrothal, than..

RM1.60

Pork Leg 猪脚酒

Pork Leg 猪脚酒

猪脚酒红包,男方过大礼用品。代替真猪脚,女方必须是福建和潮州而已。  尺寸: 8.9公分 (宽)x 16.2公分 (高) Pork Leg Ang Pow, replace rea..

RM1.60

Roast Pork 金猪

Roast Pork 金猪

金猪红包,男方过大礼用品。(只限女方是广东和客家). 尺寸: 8.9公分 (宽)x 16.2公分 (高) Roast Pork Ang Pow, replace the real roast..

RM1.60

Education 学堂银

Education 学堂银

学堂银红包,男方过大礼用品。寓意:感谢女方家长供书教学。 尺寸: 8.9公分 (宽)x 16.2公分 (高) Education Ang Pow, thank Bride's parents..

RM1.60

Cloth Cutting 开剪钱

Cloth Cutting 开剪钱

开剪钱红包,男方过大礼用品。寓意:給新娘剪布做衣服的紅包。 尺寸: 8.9公分 (宽)x 16.2公分 (高) Cloth Cutting Ang Pow, for Bride to pre..

RM1.60

Betrothal 欢喜过大礼

Betrothal 欢喜过大礼

Mostly for Christian only as this package excluded joss stick and candle. Package Included:1. B..

RM81.88

Small Wedding Basket (小盛篮)

Small Wedding Basket (小盛篮)

Small size, 3 layers wedding basket for Betrothal. 小号三层盛篮,过大礼必需品。..

RM0.00

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